Seeing through the human conduct 1: You're actually obsessed with what you criticize

[man... text in the last post fully stuffe up =S... and LUNATIC, STOP TYPIN RANDOM STUFF ON MY TAG BOARD AS ME! gawd... it's so annoyiN! nehooz... erm... andu... wat i typed in the perfect bf section, it kinda can fit a lot of people? =P... juz to let u noe XD hui hui]

Decided to write about a few human behaviours that are not what they seem to be on the surface, this is the first one.

Making it transparent: whatever one criticizes the most, it is what one is totally obsessed with.

I suppose you may deny this without a second thought, but let's take a look at a few examples.

1 My own experiences
I tend to drift conversation towards people's height- that's because I like talking about it, that I like being crowned a midget, that I like my height in attention, that being a midget can unravel very interesting stories.
I also bring about conversation onto people's body type, especially skinny people- that's because I like that type of body on myself (even though it's not appealing on others) because it's something I don't have, and it's human nature to want things you don't already have.
I pick out the tiniest imperfection on what men would describe as "hot" women- that's because I'm jealous (as part of human nature once again) and I'm sure all women feel the same way, unless they too think that that particular woman is hot.

2 Andu's projection of "the god of love hates me"- is it true that being single is great?
In our conversation, it must touch the subject of love at least once.
He has had a few very recent blogs about it, even wrote a peom about it.
Keeps wanting to find Lucy, but recently piped down about it.
Fills out tags or other chain mails about the subject of getting a girlfriend.
Wants me tell him about it ASAP, when I get a boyfriend.

3 Anyone's experiences
Remember the time when you criticized something because you simply could not get your hands on it?
Remember when you hated something/someone out of jealousy and nothing else?
Remember when you could not get yourself to pay compliments because you don't want to admit that that thing/person is really too good to be true?

Just a few thoughts and comments. Think about it, you'd probably agree.

Hui Hui ^^b